The monastic day is full of starts and stops as we navigate the many elements of this life: we take time to work and to play, time to be alone and to be together, time to study and time to pray. These activities are woven throughout each day, individual threads that make up the whole, the fabric of our days.
When we first arrive at the monastery, it can be hard to imagine that these diverse strands of experience will come together to form a beautiful tapestry. For many of us, our early days at the monastery felt more like a tangle of individual threads. Many of us especially experienced a struggle with time itself: Time seemed to slow to a crawl some days, and on other days it sped past! Despite all our expectations and preparations, it took time – and our intentional cooperation with God and one another – for the threads of this life to begin to come together.
Perhaps you know something of this challenge of bringing the various elements of your life into a harmonious whole. Whether you feel a sense of having too little time for all the demands of life, or whether you feel lonely amidst too much time, God is calling you to connection. God wants us to use our time not just wisely, but sacredly, in order to thrive. Learning to use our time well, as God intended, does require us to be intentional about how we approach our life, with all its diverse components. An important part of that intention is being willing to be changed, by allowing God to select and weave together the various threads of our lives.
Each new season of our lives will require us to adapt. Becoming a monk means laying aside certain tasks or opportunities we had previously enjoyed and picking up others. In the same way, becoming a parent alters what day-to-day life looks like compared to the freedom of being a young adult. A new job might require a new outlook or schedule. Retirement is another phase that brings changes, including a new sense of identity. Each new stage of life closes some doors and opens others. No matter what stage of life we are in, God’s invitation is that we be intentional in how we use our time in order to discover the abundance of life God desires for each of us.
Over the next five weeks, we invite you to join us in reflecting on our use of time, focusing especially on how we might take time to stop, pray, work, play and love. Together we will ponder our use of time, asking God to help us weave together the various threads of our lives into a beautiful tapestry in which each part of our life informs and complements the others, and enlivens the whole.