Leave All and Follow Me – Br. Geoffrey Tristram

Br. Geoffrey TristramMark 10:28-31

In my thoughts and prayers right now are our Brothers David, Jonathan and Nicholas and the 39 pilgrims who are with them in the Holy Land.  On Monday they will be by the Sea of Galilee, which for me is one of the most beautiful places in the world.  The Sea of Galilee has a particular power and spirit because it was there and in the surrounding region that Jesus first called his disciples to follow him.  It is the cradle of Christian vocation.

“He saw Simon and Andrew casting a net into the sea, for they were fishermen.  And Jesus said, ‘Follow me.’  Immediately they left their nets and followed him.”

He saw James and John who were in their boat mending the nets.  He called them and the left their father Zebedee and followed him.

He called the rich young man and said, “Sell everything that you haveand follow me.”

He saw a tax collector called Levi and said to him, “Follow me.” And he got up, left everything, and followed him.

Some of these stories have a romance to them, but actually in every case Jesus’ call to follow him is extraordinarily radical and utterly demanding.  He doesn’t say, you can carry on as you were, and sort of have a splendid life on the side. In every case he says, I want you to leave everything. Everything: your nets, your father, all your money and all the taxes you’ve gathered. Come empty and carry nothing and follow me.

No wonder some, like the rich young man, said no.

Even the disciples didn’t get it – or complained about it!  In our Gospel today, Peter says to Jesus, “Look, we’ve left everything and followed you.”  “Yes, Peter, you have – and I tell you, anyone who leaves everything – houses, brothers, sisters, mother, father, children, fields – for my sake and the Gospel, will receive a hundred-fold now, and in the end, eternal life.”

This uncompromising command to leave everything and indeed the longing to leave everything to follow Jesus inspired so many of the first monastics: St Anthony and the desert fathers in the 4thcentury, who left all their property and wealth behind, and headed out into the western desert.

And in the early Celtic Christian tradition, such men as Patrick and Columba embraced what was known as “white martyrdom.”  They left their homelands to travel to a foreign land, leaving everything behind, to follow Jesus.  As a contemporary writer put it, “They sailed into the white sky of morning, into the unknown, never to return.”

Well, most of the rest of us are not called to such extreme acts of renunciation for the sake of following Jesus.  And yet, those words in the Gospel are surely being addressed to each one of us. “Leave everything and follow me, and you will receive eternal life.”  What can that mean for us?

I believe it contains a deep truth, that unless we let go of the familiar, the safe, the secure; unless we take the risk of becoming vulnerable, we cannot grow.  So much of the literature of the world is about this very theme.  From the story of Abraham in Genesis, when God says to Abraham, “Leave your country and your kindred and your father’s house, and go on a journey to a foreign land” to the great epic stories of the Odyssey, the Iliad, the Lord of the Rings. They all require leaving everything and going on a journey that will lead to a new life, a new identity.

For most people today, that experience happens to them when they marry.  The Bible, in Genesis, in Matthew, in Ephesians, all say the same.  “For this reason a man shall leave his father and his mother, and be joined to his wife, and they shall become one flesh.”  For a marriage to be successful there has to be a real leaving behind by the couple, and there has to be a real letting go by their parents.  In marriage, there is a new creation.  Each person’s identity is changed.  There can be no new life without the leaving behind of the old.

But whatever one’s state of life is – whether married, or a monk, or living alone – Jesus’ words to Peter, to Andrew, to James and John, to the rich young man and to Levi, to leave everything and follow him, are for us.  This is not a one off, but a daily demand.  Jesus asks us every day to say, “I leave everything to follow you.”  I think that this means that Jesus calls us every day to new beginnings, to new life.  And in many ways, the sin against the Holy Spirit is really the sin against new life.

Every day we are called to embrace the new life, and that is to let go, to leave behind what has become too comfortable.  To let go of our habits, our compulsions.  It is each morning awakening to a new day and saying to God, “Where do you want to lead me today on the journey of life? What are you asking me to leave behind? How are you asking me to change?”  We resist change, but it’s how we grow.

“To live is to change,” wrote Cardinal Newman, “and to be perfect is to have changed often.”  Although we so often resist it, there is something about beginning, or beginning again, which stirs our hearts.  If fear stops us from making the journey, we risk becoming like the pot-bound plant. The roots have nowhere to go but round and round the pot, eventually strangling and choking the plant.

So today, perhaps hear these words of Jesus addressed to you.  “Come, leave everything behind and follow me.”  How will you respond?  If the invitation seems daunting, or too much, remember that it comes with a promise:  “Leave all behind and you will receive a hundredfold in this age, and in the age to come, eternal life.”

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  1. Bobbi on July 26, 2023 at 07:22

    Thank you, Br. Geoffrey. I may need to read this every day.

  2. Janice on July 25, 2023 at 09:56

    Thank you. It’s always excellent to hear this again……and, very on target for affirmation today…..

  3. DEBORAH SMITH DOUGLAS on July 25, 2023 at 07:13

    This is such a powerful call to discipleship, and such an excellent sermon. I have had the line about the pot-bound plant written out on a post-it note and taped to my desk bookshelf since I first read this homily…bless you, Brother Geoffrey, for both challenging and encouraging us.

  4. Elizabeth Hardy on December 10, 2021 at 10:36

    Thank you for the challenge Br. Geoffrey. I need to ask those questions in the morning rather than suggesting to God he should reward me for my faithfulness and give me a good day. So far to go….Elizabeth Hardy+

  5. Jeanne DeFazio on July 17, 2020 at 08:51

    This is such a great insight. Thanks for this devotional. As you leave everything to follow Jesus scorn and rejection follows but part if the spiritual growth is in the ability to live apart happily for Jesus without making excuses.

  6. Diane on July 17, 2020 at 07:39

    Thank you! I’ve said this before and will say it again. These homilies sustain me on a daily basis while my church is not holding services because of COV. Blessings on all of you.

  7. Faith on July 3, 2019 at 13:29

    Thank you for this “spot on” message today! I appreciate your clarification about “the sin against the Holy Spirit” being more about not accepting new life. So freeing after all these years and the interpretation makes so much sense! Helps me release the fear instilled in me during my formative years so that I can all God would have me be.

  8. Rhode on July 3, 2019 at 09:52

    O, you Brothers – You do hit the mark! I love the Daily Word. The other day I was thinking how much I have changed through my relationship with my wonderful husband of almost 30 yrs. He is not a believer -raised in a completely different religion oft persecuted by mine. I know he loves me dearly and I also see him scratching his head on why I could give my heart and soul to a ‘religion’ which has caused so much pain. I also understand why he hangs on religiously to his unbelief and fear of suffering. Being afraid to think differently can cause all of us to be ‘root bound in our pots’. My husband has caused me to check on my roots time and time again. In doing so Jesus grows more precious to me and has thrown light on areas where Hubby was right-on. As I reach out to love the unloved and address needs in our community I am finding our WE as my husband is right behind me supporting, comforting and championing. The goodness of God transcends and His love finds ways to grow over rocks and wide rivers. When we choose to leave what holds us back and open our heart to examine what we are most afraid of God gives light. Commitment to love Him first enables everything and everyone to fall into their rightful place.

    • Jonathan Hansen on July 17, 2020 at 05:39

      Thank you Bro. Geoffrey very much for the inspiration and comfort I find in this sermon. Change and the newness that comes to us encourages us the grow closer to each other and to Jesus. Stay safe and thank you…

  9. Anya C on July 3, 2019 at 09:03

    Wow. The verses, the explanation are all spot on for where I am right now. I’d always heard the guilt producing take on this passage, but yours was much more helpful and sensible. Thank you for being a channel of blessing and healing.

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