Waiting and Watching – Br. Luke Ditewig

Br. Luke Ditewig
Br. Luke Ditewig

Isaiah 35:1-10
James 5:7-10
Matthew 11:2-11

When I’m told “be patient,” I squirm. For someone I love notices I’ve been squirming, wondering what will happen, and trying to make something happen. Perhaps we associate patience with being nice or good, yet it usually hurts.

“Be patient,” James writes. Along with the original hearers, I squirm. Be patient like the farmer who waits with a precious crop for the early and late rains to nourish mature growth. The farmer waits not simply for the rains to come but for the crop to survive in the meantime. Insects, weeds, and sun may harm or kill, and the farmer cannot control these.                  

To be patient is to tolerate or endure discomfort or suffering. The farmer does not know and cannot control what may eat, choke, or scorch the crops. Patience is hard, sometimes excruciating. I have also experienced that “be patient” helps prompt my renewed attention. Perhaps you have too. It is like the psalmist saying: “Be still before the Lord, and wait patiently for him.”[i] Wait patiently by slowing down from squirm to stillness, from noisy chatter to silence. As anxiety lessens, we can see and hear more, including graced surprises. God comes in unexpected ways that may at first confuse us.

In today’s Gospel text we hear John the Baptist confused. John sends his disciples to ask Jesus: “Are you the one who is to come, or are we to wait for another?” John has good reason to be confused. Jesus’ actions don’t seem to fit the radical prophetic voice. John has been spreading a call to repent and turn around; the kingdom of heaven is coming. God is changing the big picture, upending social structure, bringing long-awaited justice and freedom.

In contrast, Jesus calls a few simple fishermen as followers and invites them to catch people not burn the world with fire. In his long Sermon on the Mount earlier in Matthew, Jesus says his followers will be persecuted and will need to endure suffering. Jesus does not lead a revolution to overthrow occupiers by force but rather teaches obedience, mercy, purity, and gentleness.[ii]

John is confused: Are you really the long-awaited Messiah? Rome is still in charge and pressing down on us. I’m in prison. Where is the vengeance, the movement for rebellion, the big upset? 

Jesus replies: Listen. Look. “The blind receive their sight, the lame walk, the lepers and cleansed, the deaf hear, the dead are raised, and the poor have good news brought to them. And blessed is anyone who takes no offense at me.” 

John and everyone listening to Jesus know this list. It is part of our text this morning from Isaiah: “Then the eyes of the blind shall be opened and the ears of the deaf unstopped; then the lame shall leap like a deer.” Jesus quotes Isaiah to say: Yes, I am the One. 

 “And blessed is anyone who takes no offense at me.” Blessed are you, John, if you don’t take offense at me, if you stick with me even though I’m not acting as you expect.[iii] Stick with me though I confuse you.                                                       

Take courage. God surprises and confuses even the greatest prophet, John the Baptist. God often works slowly, like a seed silently maturing rather than a loud, sudden storm.     

“Strengthen your hearts,” James writes, “for the coming of the Lord is near.” Isaiah says, “Strengthen the weak hands, and make firm the feeble knees. Say to those who are of a fearful heart, ‘Be strong, do not fear! … God will come and save you.’”

The season of Advent invites us to wait patiently—lacking knowledge or control—without fear. How do we strengthen hearts, moving from squirm to stillness, even amid the pain? Look and listen for Jesus who is here and keeps coming slowly, surprisingly.     Here are two ways: look back and look forward.

Look back. Review previous requests. What have you been praying for? What were you longing for last week or last month or last year? It’s easy to forget what we’ve received, moving onto the latest issue or task, overlooking gifts. We may not recognize because it didn’t come or look like what we expected. It may not have be the neat, tidy closure wanted, the problem solved, the wound healed without a scar. God’s response may include or prompt new challenges, new requests. It may come from the least likely person or place. 

For what are most thankful? How have you received love? God is in each of these. Look back. Remember mercy. Give thanks. Hold onto those memories as hope for what is yet to come.

Look forward. Behold, God is waiting patiently with love. Surprise! God waits too, for you. God waits patiently as we wander, rebel, go our own ways, and in various forms get lost. As in the Second Letter to Peter: “The Lord is not slow about his promise, as some think of slowness, but is patient with you, not wanting any to perish, but all to come to repentance.” [iv]      

As a loving heavenly parent, God waits patiently for us “to come to our senses,” waits patiently “for the eyes of our heart to be enlightened.”[v] Like the parable of the extravagant father and his lost sons in Luke 15, God suffers, waiting in patient anticipation for the lost to return home. God is there scanning the horizon for the first glimpse of you and of me. Finding first sight of us, God runs wildly to welcome the returning home. 

As in the words of a hymn: “Softly and tenderly Jesus is calling, calling for you and for me. See, on the portals, he’s waiting and watching, watching for you and for me.”[vi]

[i] Psalm 37:7

[ii] Frederick Dale Bruner (1987) Matthew: The Christbook. Dallas, TX: Word Publishing, p408

[iii] Ibid, p409

[iv] 2 Peter 3:9

[v] Luke 15:17; Ephesians 1:18

[vi] “Softly and Tenderly” by Will Lamartine Thompson (1847-1909)

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  1. Julianne Lindemann on December 22, 2023 at 08:08

    Dear Br. Luke.
    This is so beautiful. The image of God waiting for each one of us who wanders, rebels or simply gets lost and then running to meet us when we turn back is absolutely and literally true in my experience.
    – A lost sheep who was found & brought home after deciding and saying “I need God”.

  2. Pedro on May 29, 2022 at 03:53

    Thank you, Brother Luke, for this very nice and spiritual sermon! We take so many wonderful gifts from God for granted. Some mental prayer and analysis will make us more aware of these gifts. Then we should be thankful for them and also thankful for having such a patient and loving Father.

  3. Sally Baynton on December 2, 2021 at 09:17

    Good morning, Brother Luke….thank you for this precious homily. Every night, just before I fall asleep, I practice the Prayer of Examen where I look back at the day I have just had and make sure that I notice, as much as I am able, where God “showed up.” I am always surprised and delighted at moments that I recognize that God was there and I didn’t see it! In the mornings, I say prayers and look forward to how God is going to show up….wherever and whenever He chooses. I can quit “squirming” knowing that He will be there when I least expect it!

  4. Bobbi on December 18, 2020 at 20:39

    During the year 2021 I have chosen to concentrate on patience. What might being more patient mean for me in as a Christian in my daily life? So, thank you Brother Luke, for reminding me that God is waiting patiently for me.

  5. J. Stewart Ball on December 18, 2020 at 17:10

    I have been receiving your daily offerings for several years now. I also receive the daily offerings from Fr. Richard Rohr and more recently I have subscribed to thise from The Living Church. For what it may be worth, while all three are helpful to me I find yours to most consistently speak relevantly to me. Blessings to all of you.

  6. David Watkins on December 18, 2020 at 11:13

    I can only say “Thank you”, for this beautiful reminder to “Wait patiently for the Lord”, as He waits patiently for this traveler to keep returning, sometimes plodding heavily, sometimes bounding upward toward Him.

  7. Craig Kolins on December 18, 2020 at 09:48

    Watching for us. So grateful for this awareness this morning, Brother Luke.

  8. Barbara Kennard on December 18, 2020 at 08:30

    Lovely. Beautifully expressed, Br. Luke.

  9. Rick Porter on December 18, 2020 at 07:55

    Dear Brother Luke, what a timely sermon as we wait for Christmas under the cloud of covid with all of the frustration, loss and fear it has and still produces. Jesus is here, we will celebrate His birth on Christmas day and He will strengthen and guide us as we go into the New Year. Thank you for these words of faith and love.

  10. SusanMarie on December 18, 2020 at 07:43

    This is a beautiful, wonderful sermon! So much to take in and yet the message is really very simple.

    A side note, but very significant for me: I appreciate how you named what we usually call the parable of the prodigal son so much more accurately as the parable of the extravagant father and his lost sons.

  11. Jeff McGuire on January 13, 2020 at 15:55

    Patience Is like waiting and a virtue.

    • Ann Trousdale on December 22, 2023 at 08:17

      What a very timely message, Brother Luke. That is to say, eternal or universal. But it is a great help to me today with the terrible conflict we see in the Holy Land and in other places where forces other than God’s love and wisdom are creating so much pain. This has ever been the way it is, or seems, and we are ever reminded that God comes, in gentleness and healing and deliverance— and vulnerability. But God comes.
      Thank you.

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