The Hour Has Come – Br. Geoffrey Tristram

Br. Geoffrey Tristram

John 12: 20-36

‘The hour has come for the Son of Man to be glorified’. I find our Gospel reading today, on this day, this Tuesday in Holy Week, to be really moving.  We are in company with Jesus as he gets ready to die. He is fully prepared. As Son of God he knows that his death will bring life and salvation to the world. But he’s also Son of Man, he is just like us: flesh and blood. He is fearful. ‘Now, my soul is troubled he says’. We hear similar words in the other Gospels, “I am deeply grieved, even to death; (Matthew 26:38)

Each day of this Holy Week, Jesus draws closer to his death. We meditate again on his gracious words and actions, culminating in that glorious final commitment from the Cross, ‘Into your hands O Lord I commend my spirit’.  In doing so we can I believe be strengthened to prepare for our own death. Jesus was fully prepared for his death, and we should be too. There is something rather important being said in the Great Litany in the Book of Common Prayer when we pray to be ‘delivered from dying suddenly and unprepared.’ It is good to be ready, to be prepared for when our own death comes. St Francis of Assisi could speak of death as ‘Sister Death’, because she was for him a familiar and welcome companion. It is said of Pope John 23rd -good Pope John- that as he lay dying of a rather terrible stomach cancer, he told his secretary, ‘My bags are packed and ready to go.’  In the Rule of our Society we read, ‘We are called to remember our mortality day by day with unflinching realism, shaking off the sleep of denial.’ (Chapter 48).  Death for the Christian is no enemy, is not to be feared, but is rather a kind angel waiting to lead us into the presence of our heavenly Father.

So perhaps this Holy Week might be a good time for each of us to prepare for our own death, not in a morbid way, but in a way that actually can make us more fully alive! As our Rule puts it, ‘The anticipation of death is essential if we are to live each day to the full as a precious gift.’

So, are your bags packed? If you were to face death now, would you be ready? Jesus was ready. He had already taken leave of his loved ones, his disciples. In those wonderful words recorded in John’s Gospel at the Last Supper, the ‘Farewell Discourse’, Jesus gave thanks to the Father for them, and he blessed them with peace. Would you be ready to leave your loved ones?  Our Rule puts it like this: ‘Remembering that death can come to us at any time, …we shall remember to express to one another those things that would make us ready to part without regrets, especially thanksgiving and reconciliation.’

When I was a parish priest in Berkhamsted in England, I was also chaplain to our local Hospice of St Francis. It was an incredible privilege to sit with men and women in their final hours, praying with them and helping them to prepare for their death. I always found it a privilege, and a deeply spiritual experience. It was then that I came across these simple words of the Indian mystic Tagore which I have always found so sustaining, and which I hope to be able to say when my own death comes.  He wrote, ‘Death is not extinguishing the light, but putting out the lamp because the dawn has come.’  That surely is our greatest hope in Jesus, that with trust in the love of God, we shall each see the day when, ‘Heaven’s morning breaks and earth’s vain shadows flee’.  We hold fast to that promise made at the very beginning of the story of Jesus; ‘The light shines in the darkness and the darkness has not overcome it.’

The reality of that truth will become especially vivid in this monastery chapel and in churches all over the world early this Sunday morning, when as one community under the Risen Christ we shall celebrate the first Eucharist of Easter together.  We shall find ourselves at first enshrouded in darkness, the black night of Jesus’ cross and death. And then will come that glorious moment when the Light of Christ is lit and carried to every person in Christ’s Church. The lights will blaze and the bells will ring. Everything we do during this Holy Week is because of that glorious Resurrection that is to come, that wonderful dawn that is to break. We know it is there, just around the corner, that Jesus is waiting for us with words of hope, words of faith, and the promise of light and life.

Maybe this week, as we journey together through death to life, you might like to return to a favorite spiritual book or favorite Scripture passages to pray with. Every Holy week I always return to Bunyan’s Pilgrim’s Progress. It is so full of hope and joy. I’ll close with my favorite passage, in which Christian is weighed down with the burden of sin and the fear of death. And we read;

‘He came to a place, somewhat ascending, and upon that place stood a cross, and just as he came to the cross his burden loosed from off his shoulders, and fell from off his back and began to tumble down and down until it came to the mouth of the sepulcher, where it fell in and I saw it no more. Then was Christian glad and lightsome, and said with a merry heart, ‘He hath given me rest by his sorrow and life by his death.’ Then he stood still a while to look and wonder, for it was very surprising to him that the sight of the Cross should thus ease him of his burden. He looked and looked again, until the springs that were in his head sent the waters down his cheeks. Then Christian gave three leaps of joy, and went on his way singing.’

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  1. Dr. Russell Kendall Carter on April 3, 2023 at 10:46

    Death is not a final stage of life. We graduate into a world that we truly have little knowledge. When our physical body dies, our spirit, our soul, that which belongs to God, continues in a world that truly is; the only thing I know is that I have been to the threshhold; I have little understanding of what death is; I have seen an image to live with. Words cannot describe what I felt. What I felt was comfort; I felt that the place was beckoning me to enter. But three angels approached me and told me to turn around and go back. There is something more that God wants me to do.
    I awoke in the hospital’s recovery room and placed in a room for three days to recover from my near-death experience. I could not see the doctors or the nurse; I could only hear them. What I saw for the three days was an image of three spectres floating above me, telling me that God was with me.
    MOnths later as I was writing a prayer for my blog, the spectre of my father came into my spritual being; he told me that the three angels that visited me were the eternal beings of my father, mother, and sister.
    I no longer fear death, for I know that a glorious eternity is waiting for me.. So, presently, I am keeping my eyes and ears open for God’s message.

    • fred adams on April 5, 2023 at 22:49

      Thank you so very much. I’ve had a black and white dream of my parents, brother, and sister standing together waiting for me. I think the image has now been reinforced, and perhaps not so much as a dream,but something much more. Thank you again.

  2. Charles Taliaferro on April 3, 2023 at 08:22

    Thank you. I have missed your reflections.

  3. DEBORAH SMITH DOUGLAS on April 3, 2023 at 06:25

    Dear Brother Geoffrey, as always you ring a deep bell for me with your insights and invitations.
    I too love that passage from “Pilgrim’s Progress,” as Christian leaps and sings for joy as his burdens fall away.
    A Benedictine monk friend always wishes us a “merry Lent” with that same promise of the inextinguishable Light beyond the darkness of death.
    Blessings to you and all the brothers in this most holy of weeks.
    Packing my bags even now.
    Deborah Smith Douglas

  4. Alan Rollins on April 3, 2023 at 06:03

    “Death is not extinguishing the light, but putting out the lamp because the dawn has come.” What a profound, and hopeful quotation of promise. It’s the first my reading this; thank you, Br. Geoffrey. Your words are comforting and graceful to me. Blessings and peace to you and your brothers at SSJE.

  5. Maryanne Wolf on April 28, 2022 at 15:40

    Dear Brother Geoffrey,

    I would like to print this out and keep it marked in a folder: For the time before I die. And then I think—this —-this living present(in all its meanings) IS the time before we die. Once a student of the beloved theologian Fr John Dunne ran to him after a lecture and out of breath said: I get it! I finally get it! We accept death and then we are free. Fear dominates so much of life, but the words of Pope John 23rd provides a form of freedom. Pack our bags with this knowledge and our burden will be lighter however many days we get to carry them.
    Thank you as always. Prof. Maryanne Wolf

  6. Annie Trejo on April 14, 2022 at 18:31

    I found the question are you ready for death intriguing.
    I have seen many people die in my life, and many times I have seen them leave this world peaceful and smiling. The hospice nurses believe that Angels or family are sent to take us home. To be honest I am afraid of the way I may die, guess it’s fear of the unknown. But I am not afraid to see our Lord, I know I’ve made mistakes in my life but I am truly looking forward to meeting Jesus. I look at it as being free of all our earthly troubles and feeling the love of Jesus.

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