Br. David Vryhof

Br. David Vryhof, SSJE

Br. David Vryhof, SSJE is a native of Grand Rapids, Michigan. He attended Calvin University, then went on to earn a Master’s degree in Education of the Deaf at Gallaudet College in Washington, D.C. Prior to coming to the Community in 1985, he taught at the Rhode Island School for the Deaf in Providence, then at the MICO Teachers’ College in Kingston, Jamaica (where he also became an Anglican). Following his arrival at the Monastery, David studied at Duke University and the General Theological Seminary and was ordained to the priesthood 1994. He was life-professed in 1997 and has served the Community as Assistant Superior as well as Novice Guardian (a post in which he served for a total of 17 years!). His specific interests include Ignatian Spirituality, Spiritual Discernment, U.S. and world politics, as well as issues surrounding minorities in the U.S. such as African-Americans, native peoples, LGBTQ people and those living in poverty. He is currently studying Spanish, and enjoys exercising, reading, and watching movies. David is credited with being the most committed sports fan in the Community and loves all the Boston teams.

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Selection of Br. David's teachings from "Brother, Give Us a Word"

Vision

It can be threatening to move toward deeper union with God because when we do, we begin to see reality as a whole and realize that we are not the center of it. -Br. David Vryhof Society of Saint John the Evangelist To Read More and to Leave a Comment, Click Here

Burdens

Our difficulty with time arises because we over-extend ourselves, we try to have it all and do it all, we fail to discern that which is essential and that which is superfluous. Our lives become over burdened with too many responsibilities, too many relationships, too many interests, too many possessions. Why not make this a…

Love

Yes, there is always trouble and danger. There always has been. But if you look beyond all that, you will see that there is a God of love who has brought all this into being and who is now holding it and caring for it. And the love that God is never changes. It can…

God Loves Humans

“If forgiveness is one of the most powerful forces for redemption in the Christian faith, unforgiveness is one of the most powerful forces for destruction. Unforgiveness hardens the heart. It magnifies a perceived offense to the point where we can no longer appreciate a person’s value because all we see is how they have grieved us. No wonder the petition about forgiveness – “Forgive us our sins, as we forgive those who sin against us” – sits at the heart of the Lord’s Prayer.”

Between Good & Evil: The Practice of Spiritual Discernment

“The spiritual skill of discernment enables us not only to resist the lure of those voices that would distract and distance us from God, but also to perceive directly God’s engagement with us in the circumstances of our lives as we navigate the many decisions that crop up along our way.”