Growing a Rule of Life
Relationship with God, Self, Creation & Others
God, the Chief Gardener of our souls, invites us to grow into fullness of life. Just as stakes and lattices nurture the growth of young plants, so too can spiritual disciplines support the flourishing of our whole being. Explore a tool from monastic spirituality called a ‘Rule of Life’ to cultivate your relationships with God, Self, Others, and Creation.
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This six-week journey of reflection on growing a rule of life is now available as an anytime series for individuals and groups. Subscribe to receive the series' video meditations from the SSJE Brothers directly in your inbox, or scroll down and view the videos below. This video offering is accompanied by a helpful workbook, and facilitation guidance for small groups from the Center for the Ministry of Teaching at Virginia Theological Seminary.
To receive this offering in your inbox, as a daily email for six weeks, add the date you would like to begin. (We recommend that you start on a Sunday to maintain the weekly sequence). If you are going to follow this series as a group, we suggest that everyone coordinate the same start date to receive the videos in sync.
As we explore the monastic practice of writing and keeping a Rule of Life, participants will:
- Design a balanced plan for growing into a deeper relationship with God, Self, Others, and Creation.
- Celebrate areas of their lives that are thriving and explore areas that need extra nourishment.
- Tune their sensitivity to the rhythms of nature to help them in keeping a Rule of Life.
- Grow in fellowship with other participants and support them through the growing process.
Ultimately each participant will create their own unique Rule of Life or ‘Garden Plot’ to sustain and expand beyond the class.
Facilitator’s Guides and other additional supporting materials are available online here >
“What is a Rule of Life?”
Br. David Vryhof introduces the monastic concept of the Rule of Life: it frees us from living randomly, by encouraging us to express our deepest values in our daily living.
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“Life itself is a very precious gift that we have been given by God. The Rule is what we plan to do with that very precious gift.”
Br. Mark Brown uncovers how a Rule helps us embrace the precious gift of our life, living it to the fullest.
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“If you were to ask, ‘How would I begin thinking about a Rule?’, think about it in terms of relationships – how you relate to yourself, how you relate to others, how you relate to God.”
Br. Curtis Almquist suggests that the root of any Rule is relationships.
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“We believe that in the natural world around us there are lessons to be learned from the patterns and rhythms of nature that we see around us.”
Br. David Vryhof invites us to consider the “garden plot” of our life and how it might benefit from following the patterns and rhythms we see in the natural world around us.
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“Once you do plant, how do you help things grow?”
Br. Luke Ditewig explores the metaphor of the garden of our life, asking how we plant, cultivate, and prune to help our life to thrive.
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“God cannot enter into a life that does not acknowledge the need for God or acknowledge that on my own I can’t do this.”
Br. John Braught locates the beginning point for any Rule – as for any spirituality – is acknowledging that we need help.
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“What are the ideas that have stuck in your mind? What has grabbed your attention?”
On the final day of the first week, Br. David Vryhof invites us to gather the “seeds” that have struck across the week, seeds that we will sow and tend in the weeks to come.
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“One of the best things we can do, in developing our own life of prayer, is to practice simply paying attention.”
Br. Geoffrey Tristram invites us to “consider the lilies,” to practice paying attention to Creation as a way of drawing near to the Creator.
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“Like that very old hymn reminds us, ‘Wherever love is, God himself is there.’”
Br. Mark Brown encourages us to reflect on where we experience God’s love in the world, as well as where we make God’s love manifest for others.
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“If God is in us and God is a part of who we are and flourishes in us then God actually dwells inside of us.”
Br. Jim Woodrum reminds us that God is at work in us, and all we have to do is be the soil that allows the blooms God is tending to grow.
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“Part of the journey is learning to be patient, learning to slow down, learning to change my expectations of what God is inviting.”
Br. Luke Ditewig looks to nature for a lesson in patience as we take the next step on the journey.
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“’What would you have me do now? Where am I going?’”
Br. Jim Woodrum reflects on the surprises of vocation and invites us to bring our questions to God in prayer.
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“’God, I offer my whole person, my heart, my mind, my whole being to you in this practice.’”
Br. Keith Nelson commends the importance of not simply taking on a spiritual practice, but offering an intention for our practice to God before we begin it.
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“For many people prayer is the first thing to go when there are many other demands on our time.”
Br. Geoffrey Tristram encourages us to reflect on how we can give our life of prayer more space to grow, even when life gets busy.
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“We have been created by the love of God, for the love of God, in the love of God.”
Br. Curtis Almquist encourages us to cooperate with God, who operates in our lives with love.
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“The desert fathers repeated again and again how important it was to descend from our heads into our hearts and to live in our bodies. ”
Br. Nicholas Bartoli calls upon his own history of discovering yoga and dance to suggest the importance of remembering and honoring our bodies as we craft a Rule.
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“Embracing the frailty of our human nature is a way of giving thanks to God.”
Br. Jonathan Maury reminds us to incorporate into our Rule our weaknesses and limitations, not in judgment of them, but in recognition of our humanity and as a way of recognizing all as gift as we are being remade in Christ’s image.
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“Allow yourself to be surprised or to break out of a particular routine.”
Br. Keith Nelson reflects on the importance of surprise in exercising our creativity, and our prayer.
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“How do you see yourself?”
Br. Curtis Almquist commends the practice of taking a “body map” as a way of discovering your own belovedness and accepting the invitation to see yourself as God sees you.
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“There is nothing about us that does not belong as a part of a Rule of Life.”
Br. Jonathan Maury reminds us to think beyond the “spiritual” in crafting our Rule, and to include all of our lives and selves in its affirmations.
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“Using your five senses to take in beauty will give you a different sense of balance in your life.”
Br. Curtis Almquist commends the importance of planning something you’ll enjoy into each day, to reset the balance of your day—and our life—toward beauty.
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“Spirituality is never a private affair; it always brings us into connection with others.”
Br. David Vryhof invites us to consider how a Rule might help us to reach out beyond the circle of those whom we find it easy to love and to touch the lives of others.
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“I am often painfully aware of how difficult I can be to live with.”
Br. Robert L’Esperance reflects on the challenges and graces of life in community.
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“For a very long time I was quite conflict adverse and felt that every conflict I had in relationships meant the end of that relationship.”
Br. John Braught suggest a different model for assessing and dealing with conflict in relationships.
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“What worked yesterday? What worked last week?”
Br. Nicholas Bartoli commends the simple practice of including in a Rule those practices that helped you in the past as you navigated relationships with God, self and others.
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“There is always more work to be done.”
Br. Luke Ditewig shares his own struggles and discoveries with saying “No” to some things in order to foster overall health and wellbeing.
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“All of the love that we give or receive is just God’s love. It’s not our possession, it’s not our product.”
Br. Keith Nelson traces all love back to God, reminding us that we cannot cultivate love, we can simply receive it.
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“The message of reconciliation is the message that we have for the world.”
At the close of the fourth week, Br. David Vryhof discusses how reconciliation can help us — and those we love, as well as those with whom we struggle — to grow into greater life.
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“Is our heart good soil? Is it abundant? Is it rocky? Is it full of thistles and thorns?”
Br. James Koester reflects on the importance of maintaining and renewing the soil of our hearts, so that is can produce abundantly.
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“Simply gaze at the object without attempting to put any qualifications on it.”
Br. Robert L’Esperance shares a transformative practice in which he has discovered a deep sense of peace and centeredness.
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“I think of something raw that has come from the earth, from nature, and that’s somehow been worked through with the work of my own hands and then becomes something more.”
Br. Keith Nelson celebrates the power of the interspecies collaboration that happens when we recognize how the natural world participates in our actions, and how we interact with the processes of nature.
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“I feel like my vocation is the thing that I have to offer, the thing that I have to give, the blessing that I can pass on.”
Br. Nicholas Bartoli reflects on the mission to which God calls each of us through our vocations.
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“Though I can present myself in prayer as being willing to be pruned, the actual pruning happens out in the world as I am rubbing up against other people.”
Br. John Braught reflects on being pruned as a practical experience that happens through interactions with others in the world.
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“One way I try to keep myself open to the flow of the blessings of the natural world is to be in it as much as possible.”
Br. Mark Brown shares his own simple practice for strengthening his sense of connection to the natural world: be out in nature as often as you can!
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“As you look at your life, see where is the balance, and where are you out of balance.”
Br. James Koester reflects on the importance of restoring balance — to soil and to the soil of our hearts — in order to keep the weeds out and to help good growth to thrive.
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“Those rhythms, those disciplines which we have grown and established, will uphold us and support us and strengthen us when we feel that life is very, very difficult.”
Br. Geoffrey Tristram considers how a Rule can strengthen us and help us to preserve during the most challenging seasons of our life.
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“I’d begin with a sense of deep gratitude for the gift of life itself.”
Br. Mark Brown suggests how a Rule helps us say “thank you” to the Giver of life, by optimizing the conditions of our life for balance, growth, and exposure to light.
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“God has envisioned so much more for the unfolding of my life.”
Br. Keith Nelson addresses the tension any Rule must encompass: between embracing the beloved reality of the self in present moment, and envisioning the greater unfolding of God’s kingdom in the future.
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“We need companions on the journey.”
Br. Luke Ditewig considers how our companions play a vital role in drawing us forward on the journey.
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“The monastic life is about saying no to some things in order that our energies can be directed in other directions.”
Br. Mark Brown suggests how the monastic practice of taking vows might model a useful strategy for secular life: saying no to some things in order to redirect our energies toward the things we wish to value.
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“I need rules, I need structure in order to go further and further.”
Br. John Braught reveals the importance of limits, rules, and boundaries in helping us to shape our life.
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“Be patient, try it out, see how it works and be realistic, and be full of hope, and full of joy.”
Br. Geoffrey Tristram encourages a playful and light touch as we set out to draft a Rule of Life — starting in pencil!
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Thank you so much for this series. I slightly ‘ missed the boat ‘ in terms of doing it along with others ( I found it about week 2-3 of lent, and a year behind)but I am so glad I found it. Although the videos and questions appear simple, I find them profound, in fact I am finding them quite transformative. I am also enjoying reading others comments.I am really going to miss them when the series finishes.
Thank you!!!
I am looking forward to it
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Brother Braught, this touches on the ambiguity in each of us as well and as lovingly as anything I’ve ever seen.
Thank you,& God Bless you
Just to update you… there are (at least) two of us in Seattle that have been unable to download/watch the videos since 29 February. (We live in different parts of Seattle, have different servers, etc.) Neither of us had a problem prior to 29 February. Here’s hoping!
On the page ssje.org/growrule the links should work – if not email friends@ssje.org – apologies
I leave tomorrow to go to visit my grandchildren. There are (boy/girl) twins, age 10 on St. Patrick’s Day and an older grandaughter who turned 11 at Christmas. They are ready (and thirsty) for this kind of stability and peace. I copy a portion of the (daily assigned) Psalm into a small notebook to carry with me throughout the day. The copying engraves it better into my heart. I plan to present and propose this to my grandchildren. The twin girl only wants to sing and go to church, and she will know that this is within her and she carries it with her. The boy twin says that he likes to write words because they give him calmness. He is ready. Little children crave God’s work engrafted upon their hearts. For the older girl, it may not be too late as she has recently turned receptive to a relationship with me. I only pray that I can bring this to them early so that they can carry it (God’s word) within them.
Greetings, and may heavenly joy and the Holy Spirit be with you all day. I loved reading your thoughts, beautiful and sensitive, regarding your grand children. Two thoughts that came to me, I think becasue you are filled with light and “The Way” that your grand children recognize this in you immediately and gravitate to you both becasue of this and not only because you are their grandmother and they love you but I am certain without your knowing it that it is the light in you which also draws them to you – it’s like flowers/plants reaching for the sun…children instinctively know and instinctively want more…so water these plants becasue when they are full grown and the bloom will be beautiful and then they too will nurture others. A second thought which I think you might enjoy, each day I read my postings from SSJE, especially during Lent, I have been posting this on my FB page for others to read…I call it “Today…as Lent continues)…so, each day I have been blessed to discovered others reading or listening to the postings from SSJE. Thanks you for reading my thoughts, and in closing, may all of us who follow “the Way” be lead forward on this beautiful journey towards the light. Cheers, Richard
I realize that I’m coming late to the party. but just became aware of it a few days ago. Appears to be something of which I would like to be a part.
This response is to thank Br. Nicholas Bartoli…I am a retired professional dancer and have been an Episcopalian since Baptism, I am 74 years old…hearing you God bless wisdom regarding dance and honoring your body…may I say the blessing of the human instrument through my very long career as a ballet dancer then many years afterwards as a ballet teacher has given me the blessing of exceptional health both physically and mentally for my age God’s love and His gift to me of the dance has blessed me all these many years, so when’s listened to you words about honoring your body’s do the dance reminded me once again how blessed and fortunate I was to have been given the gift of dance and that I was able to honor and take care for my body in most glorious way. Again thank you.
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This topic / ordering life / is very much of the moment for me as I am doing that very thing — reordering my waking/walking(life)/sleeping patterns. Knowing approximately 21 days are needed to re-set a habit, I am listening to this winter time of snoozing hibernation – a time for incubating the thought captive I was and setting myself to re-emerge in rhythm with age and stage and dreams in tact and ready for the promise of spring.
This Lenten Practice – is a good help along this dreampath into a reality living into the promise and the possibility of what can be now.
Thanks to each for their thought & contribution to mine.
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Greetings, and may heavenly joy and the Holy Spirit be with you all day. I loved reading your thoughts, beautiful and sensitive, regarding your grand children. Two thoughts that came to me, I think becasue you are filled with light and “The Way” that your grand children recognize this in you immediately and gravitate to you both becasue of this and not only because you are their grandmother and they love you but I am certain without your knowing it that it is the light in you which also draws them to you – it’s like flowers/plants reaching for the sun…children instinctively know and instinctively want more…so water these plants becasue when they are full grown and the bloom will be beautiful and then they too will nurture others. A second thought which I think you might enjoy, each day I read my postings from SSJE, especially during Lent, I have been posting this on my FB page for others to read…I call it “Today…as Lent continues)…so, each day I have been blessed to discovered others reading or listening to the postings from SSJE. Thanks you for reading my thoughts, and in closing, may all of us who follow “the Way” be lead forward on this beautiful journey towards the light. Cheers, Richard
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Br. Mark Brown’s visit to the recent Diocese of Ohio Winter Convocation, and Will Fowler’s luncheon workshop all were extremely helpful preparation for my workbook participation here in Fort Wayne, IN with many across the world during Lent. I look forward to the daily online guidance, too. God bless us all in building our loving relationships in the community of believers, the Jesus movement.
I notice that the text of some of the ending readings or blessings are not in the materials. Are they to be found another place or are we advised to purchase these books beforehand? Example the Wendell Berry poem and the Equilibrium poem
thanks
Christopher
Hello Christopher,
We do not have copyright permission to reprint some of those passages, but internet searches or libraries should turn them up fairly easily.
I found the final reading for the first session by an internet search. For the second session, I may be missing something, but I don’t even see the name of the poem to be read in the facilitators guide (the one by John O’Donohoe from To Bless the Space Between Us: A Book of Blessings). To which exact poem from the book are you referring?
Hi Rachel,
the link were missing from earlier version of the Guide.
“The clearing rests in song and shade” written by Wendell Berry. The poem is included in A Timbered Choir: The Sabbath Poems, 1979-1997; by Wendell Berry (Washington, D.C.: Counterpoint, 1998), p.49.
Poem here: https://www.journeywithjesus.net/PoemsAndPrayers/Wendell_Berry_Sabbath_Poem_VII.shtml
For our closing reading, we will hear a poem by John O’Donohoe. This poem is taken from the book To Bless the Space Between Us: A Book of Blessings.
For Equilibrium, a Blessing:
Poem here: https://www.goodreads.com/quotes/68613-for-equilibrium-a-blessing-like-the-joy-of-the-sea
I have been connected with the SSJE from a distance. As the Dean and Chaplain of St. Stephen’s College of Delhi University, I look forward to use this material with the students and senior members. I hope to encourage others to go straight to this site and gain resources for deeper life.
We are very much looking forward to using the “Grow Rule” curriculum for our Lent Program this year. In preparing for our programming, I noticed that the suggested blessing from John O’Donahue’s book at the end of the curriculum for Phase 2 is not mentioned. Would you mind passing that along to us? This question will probably come up with others as they read through the materials, so perhaps you might want to post an update for the broader distribution group.
Thank you so much for this excellent resource. We look forward to journeying with you through Lent again this year.
Peace,
Amelie+
Thanks Amelie,
The poem is “For Equilibrium, a Blessing”. I don’t have the book in front of me so cant give exact page reference for this. I did update the Word doc to include this, many thanks
Conor
Hello. I just signed up. I might have also signed up many months ago. I just know that these SSJE Lenten series are so good that I really do not want to miss this one. Thank you so much.
A friend of mine passed along the VTS description of the Growing A Rule of Life Lenten Program and I introduced it to our Women’s study group. There are already seven signed up, and I will facilitate. May I use your description on your Introduction page to the study? We would use it to invite others via a Sunday church bulletin. Thank you.
Hello Emilie, thanks for joining us for this series. Yes, you may use the Introduction excerpt for the bulletin. All of our content is covered under a Creative Commons Attribution license which means you could copy and paste to your site so long as you keep a link back to ssje.org.
I would love to receive this during the period of Lent and thereafter too, because am very much involved in spiritual development for self and for others. This could be of tremendous value to me. Thank you and God bless you.
I have loved using SSJE’s last two years’ Lenten programs, and would like to present this one as well. Here’s my challenge. My little church does not have phone or internet, and the signal on a cell phone is not always reliable. Is it possible to get a download of the weekly videos to use at a weekly session?
Hello Winnie,
As of today, the videos are in the final stages of editing, and so, are not yet available for download. Please subscribe to the series if you are not already, as this will ensure that you will receive the link from us once they are available.
I just signed up and am hoping to use it at our church during Lent. If we do the small group portion of this meeting once a week, how much time do you think we need to allow for that? If everyone has already watched the video? Trying to advertise it and promote it, but need to set a time for this and then we will close each session with Compline as well. — Thank you it looks great!
Hi Brian, while the time can certainly be adjusted once you get a sense of how it is going, our feedback from past years and the folks at VTS suggest a 1 hour meeting should be a reasonable amount of time to schedule.
I would love to offer this in our parish, but am somewhat aghast at the fact that most of the suggested opening and closing readings are in books we do not have our our shelves. That’s a big price bite if we have to purchase all these books. Will the readings be provided to us? (We can pay a reasonable copyright fee if necessary.) Thank you!
(I have reviewed further; we will need only three books – whew! – and I am checking with the local library)
The library has come through! We will have all the materials we need; all we need now is for folks to sign up so we can order the workbooks.
Evelyn, so glad you were able to solve your questions! Well done! SSJE and VTS have provided excerpts in the workbook of the suggested readings, so the basics are already covered. The Facilitator’s Guide does have some additional options for readings, and I think it is that to which you were referring. For folks who may not be able to track those down, those are supplemental, so it should not diminish or affect using the series without them. Thanks for your questions and answers, Evelyn!
Signed up. Looking forward to the journey
My question is similar to one comment above. If we wanted to do this as a small group with our parish, should we have each person sign up so they can download or do I have permision to reproduce from the download 10 15 copies?
Just wondering. Thank you and may the Lord bless and keep you.
Carol
Carol, that is a good question, thank you. Based on the feedback we have received during previous Lenten series, it seems that individual sign up may work best, as it allows for each person to be able to access both written and video materials at whatever times may fit best for them on a given day. This may be even more true with this year’s offering of writing a personal Rule. Through the kindness of a few donors, we have also been able to provide workbooks for a nominal cost of $3 per book or $20 for bundles of ten through Amazon.
https://www.amazon.com/dp/B016UPQ1RE (for single book)
https://www.amazon.com/dp/B017LTKOTE (for bundle of 10)
Thanks so much for sharing this! I look forward to this series. I would like to propose using this study for our Daughters of the King chapter. Would you recommend we do it as individuals or as a group?
Thank you for the encouraging words, Vik. The series is really designed for both individual as well as group use. A middle ground might be individually going through the daily sessions and meeting weekly as a group to share responses and have conversation, or perform some of the exercises. You can find more resources via this link which may help you determine what you think may work best for your chapter: https://ssje.org/ssje/growruleresources/
Where can we order workbooks?
The workbooks can be downloaded from this page https://ssje.org/ssje/growrule/
Amazon.com
$3 for single copies – https://www.amazon.com/dp/B016UPQ1RE
$20 for packet of 10 copies – https://www.amazon.com/dp/B017LTKOTE
Free Amazon Prime shipping
I would like to lead a Lenten study group on “Growing a Rule of Life.” Can you please give me instructions on how I might do this. I have not led a study group of this nature before.
Thank you.
Hi Brian, together with the Center for the Ministry of Teaching at VTS we have created a page of
Resources for Group and Church Leaders and Educators – http://www.SSJE.org/growruleresources
On this you will find a 50 Page Facilitators guide to accompany the series.
How do I get the Clergy and facilitator guide?
Resources for Group and Church Leaders and Educators – https://www.SSJE.org/growruleresources
On this you will find a 50 Page Facilitators guide to accompany the series.
Can you say anything about how this resource might be used with children and families? Would there be enough provided to have a mid-week series using these materials? Thank you for the additional information!
Yes, there is definitely enough material for a mid-week series. There will be a workbook produced for participants, as well as a facilitator’s guide. And the brothers will also have short videos in which they share their thoughts and experiences and offer a question for reflection. All of these components will be available for download in advance of the series for groups. The series contains both teaching as well as invitations to personal reflection, which may be used as building blocks toward writing one’s own Rule of Life, if so inclined. Children from about 10 or 12 years of age and beyond are probably best suited for the material. As there are a number of metaphors from the natural world used, there could be a bit of a “hands-on” aspect to utilizing the series. As it also sparks conversation and reflection, the videos, questions, or activities may serve as a starting point for conversation and collaboration.
I LOVED the Lenten Series on time last year. I have been meditating on the SSJE emails I get every day. I can’t imagine a better way to deepen my walk than to walk with the Brothers. Thank you!
If I am already signed up to receive Brother Give Us A Word, will I be automatically included in this program? Or does Growing a Rule of Life require a separate sign up?
You will be included – you can add your address and get a free copy of the participant if you are not on the Mailing List.
[…] in person—at convention. And while enthusiasm was high about the Brothers’ Lent 2016 offering, Growing a Rule of Life (full disclosure: the CMT helped them develop it), we want to take a moment to commend their other […]
I’m a ( long distance!) member of FSJ and Vicar of a north of England parish. I’m wondering if it would be possible for each day in Lent 2016 to be down loaded onto our Facebook page? last year we put up a prayer every day and had over 200 followers – not too bad for a small parish. Many thanks for all you do,
Philip
Yes, it will be possible to do so. SSJE will provide specifics regarding how to do this as they are finalized, likely towards the end of December 2015. To ensure you receive information about the Growing a Rule of Life offering, please sign up to receive the information, located at this page, or visit this page for updates: https://ssje.org/ssje/growrule/
I’m chairperson of the Adult Formation at St Simon’s Episcopal, Arlington Heights IL. I’m interested in using this study in the parish at large as well as individually. Can you send me information on how best to do this? Thanks.
Dear Dorothy, Thrilled to learn of your interest. This curriculum, that SSJE is co-producing with Virginia Seminary, is not going to be published until January 2016. If you give us your address we will put you on our mailing list and send you a copy when it is published. Best Jamie Coats, Director Friends of SSJE – friends@ssje.org
I am School Chaplain at a JK-12 school. I am interested in offering this to my Upper School and Middle School students as a discipline during lent. I am also hopeful that I may be able to modify the curriculum for use by our Lower School students. I do not speak for our school. Once I put the idea before our Leadership Team for approval, I will contact you.