Compared to the cacophony of the world, silence keeps catching us off guard – inviting wonder at being so loved by God.

Thank you for your interest in visiting us here at the Society of Saint John the Evangelist. There are many ways for you to join us as we pray our lives, including stopping by the chapel at our monastery in Cambridge for some blessed stillness and silence, or participating in one our daily worship services. For those looking for a little more, and for an even more immersive experience, we offer silent retreats at our monastery in Cambridge. So take a look at the list below, and we hope to see you soon!

Your Visit and the Gift of Silence

One of the most defining aspects of our monastic hospitatliy is the silence which permeates our lives, and when you visit us we offer you the opportunity to be immersed in this silence. “Are you a silent order?” is one of the questions we get asked most frequently as monks, and it’s a difficult one to answer. We don’t take a vow of silence and we do talk quite often,but silence is a central part of our monastic life. Guests sometimes ask us, “Is being silent some sort of penance?” No, we love silence.

In fact, we believe that silence is the greatest gift we have to offer those who come on retreat in our guesthouses. As a culture, we are simply saturated with noise, whether it’s literal – radio, TV, podcasts, and car horns – or figurative, in the barrage of information that comes at us through the Internet, our email and smart phones, or even in our own inner voices. How can we possibly hear God through all that noise?

The monastic tradition bears witness to the quietness of God’s voice. It is only when we listen deeply that we can hear another voice speaking, the voice of God. God’s voice is heard not in “earthquake, wind or fire,” but in stillness, in “sheer silence,” as the First Book of Kings has it. So the sixteenth-century Spanish mystic Saint John of the Cross famously said, “God’s first language is silence. Everything else is a poor translation.”

Where do you weave silence into the fabric of your daily life? When silence comes, do you rush to fill it? If God seems distant or uncommunicative these days, maybe you’re simply not listening enough. God doesn’t shout.

The great mystery is that God in Christ dwells in the very depths of our souls. When we practice the presence of God, becoming inwardly quiet and listening with deep attention, then we too may hear in the sheer silence the creative Word that gives us life. We’d love to share the silence we so love with you. Come for a visit. What might you hear?

Retreat Calendar


  1. Barbara MacLagan on June 7, 2019 at 12:35

    Thank you for your presence, peace, and wisdom in my life and in my family’s life. I am so happy you are there.

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  4. Peggy Mahon on July 5, 2017 at 07:39

    Dear Brothers,

    I requested information about SSJE, not really knowing anything about the order itself, I was simply searching for guidance to help me as I seek to develop a deeper relationship with my God. I have just read every word of the information and I know that God truly lead me to you! I have just enrolled to participate in the 5 Marks of Love series and I can’t wait to begin. Thank you for your generous sharing of your mission . I hope to someday be able to join you in retreat. Silence is something I struggle with, but your words have helped me to understand the opportunity to listen in the silence.

    Sincerely in gratitude,

    Peggy Mahon

  5. Deborah on April 30, 2017 at 07:56

    Dear Brothers of SSJE:

    I just wanted to let you know how much I enjoyed the Lenten series: “5 Marks of Love” . I am going through a very challenging time right now–but your daily sermons really lifted me up. It helped me realize how blessed I truly am despite my circumstances.

    After Easter, I continued listening to your audio sermons and have now included them in my daily devotional practice.

    Thanks for blessing my life with your service.


    Deborah Tyson

  6. Susan Borgstrom on March 3, 2017 at 13:02

    I am delighted to find your website! We are very like-minded, and I look forward to reading more articles reflecting on our natural place being part of Creation. The Creator, God, shares so much wisdom and goodness through what He has made! Thank you for your beautiful words of truth.

  7. Robbie Gardner on November 2, 2016 at 16:57

    I stumbled onto your website and it has made all the difference. Listening to an reading the setmons has answered many, many questions I had

  8. Mary Rose Betten on July 17, 2016 at 12:46

    I just found your website! Cannot wait to learn more. Thank you for offering words – they will be my compass.